CODE OF CONDUCT:
Often we are looking for the freedom to be ourselves in a private membership based arena. Playing alone in a home while the kids are out is only interesting for a while but sooner or later we have to come back into a supportive community so that we can explore our roles in relations to the backdrop of social interaction. But how do we do this while respecting that everyone will have their own protocol or codes of behavior? After all … we can only play (and play deeply) when we feel safe and free.

In order to provide a comfortable environment for people who go deep into their roles we are promoting some guidelines that will help people maintain focus. These are not meant to be restrictive … rather they are designed to be supportive so that we can ALL share in a deep headspace.

CODE OF BEHAVIOR:
For the purpose of this discussion we will use the word ‘Dominant' generically to include Top/Dominant/Owner/Master and ‘submissive' will include bottom/submissive/slave. We are not trying to imply that any one word is any more important than the other.  We also welcome HOT WIVES/FEMALES and HOT HUSBANDS/MALES who are looking for couples , singles or others Cross dressers, transgendered, lesbian, Gay etc You are all welcome.

                                                                  
 We will outline a code of polite behavior that will benefit everyone.

                    Its all about the women,

                    No Means No,

                    Enjoy the environment only to the level that you are comfortable

                    All play is to be Safe, Sane and Consensual.   
 

 D/s can be applied to a number of different types of relationships, HOT WIVES and their Cuckold husbands, BULLS who look to provide sexual satisfaction for HOT WIVES

Mistress/Master submissive/slave relationships and more, that is why we have named the event the REALM OF FANTASY.

• Switches may switch as your mood dictates,  .

• No ‘street clothes'. Smart casual at the very least We are trying to create an extra-ordinary experience so we want to avoid ordinary clothes. Please note that expensive outfits are not required.. after all.. slaves look best naked…. So please dress in some way to reflect your fantasy, kink or fetish.

• Those identified as Dominants are to be addressed as Sir or Ma'am unless they indicate otherwise. If you wish to talk to an Other who is unfamiliar to you… It is helpful to ask the other how they would like to be addressed. Please respect their wishes.

• Submissives/Cuckolds are not expected to be obedient to anyone other than the partner that brought them.

• They are required to be respectful.

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• In order to make this an extraordinary occasion… and to help promote a rigid, hot, and juicy environment,  

• Submissives/Cuckolds are expected to keep their eyes downcast when gazing in the direction of a Dominant as a sign that they respect their role.

• Submissives/Cuckolds may not speak until spoken to… but may signal that they wish to speak to their partner.
  Please don't speak to someone else's submissive/cuckold unless you ask their owner's permission first or unless you have a standing agreement that this is permissible.

• All limits must be respected at all times. NO means NO until negotiated otherwise.

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• IF BONDAGE IS EMPLOYED:

• Collars and Cuffs are to be placed on submissives/cuckolds by the dominant and they must be removed by a Dominant. These symbols are never to be removed by someone other than the Dominant that owns them.

• Dominants and submissives/cuckolds are considered equals who are co-creating new erotic realities. Disrespectful behavior will not be tolerated.

This is the cardinal rule : Never discuss what happened in the club once you leave. Leave it all behind.
 
* It is important to understand that it is impossible to make a rule that covers every situation. Most of these codes of conduct do have exceptions. The point of this code is to illustrate how to be respectful of other people and to demonstrate how we can co operatively lend our energy to make the impossible possible. Remember… for some people this may be the only venue they have to explore erotic sexual play. Some people will be new and some people will be experience players. Please be tolerant and:

* Be generous. If someone has their own particular protocol that overrides this one (eg. Sub is expected to put cuffs on and remove them or someone has a hidden disability like they can't kneel) please do not judge them or make an issue out of it. We want to build a tolerant atmosphere. If you have a problem with someone else's behavior please contact a Dungeon Monitor so that we don't flare up any ill will or community politics. Dungeon Monitors will gladly and tactfully act on your behalf.